Selecting Your Labor Support
Childbirth can be an exceptionally intense moment for a woman, often considered one of the most significant experiences in life. However, it can also be a very stressful and complex experience. This is true for every labor, and especially the first, when all sensations are new. During these moments, having a partner or another supportive person with you can provide a greater sense of security and comfort. The presence of a companion and support during childbirth is essential because it contributes to the intimate atmosphere in the delivery room, which is crucial for the smooth progression of the delivery.
How to choose your labor support
There is no one correct answer. Some prefer that their partner accompany them; some ask their mother, sister, or a good friend to be there during childbirth; and some choose a paid companion, a midwife (external to the hospital), or a doula. Regardless of the choice you make, your comfort should be your top priority, and you should not hesitate to express your dissatisfaction if a particular companion does not suit your preferences. It is essential that you feel comfortable with the person you want as a companion and know they can support you during the challenging moments in the delivery room according to your wishes and needs.
You should know that even if you have not chosen a paid companion, such as a personal midwife or a doula, the hospital midwife will attend to your physical and emotional needs throughout labor and stay with you every step of the way.
More about the delivery room staff
Your rights as a expectant mother regarding labor support
- Every medical center determines the number of birth companions they allow to enter the delivery room (most of them allow two companions). It is advisable to find out this information beforehand when making a tour of the relevant delivery rooms so you can choose the most appropriate place for your preferences.
- As an expectant mother, you have the right to choose a personal companion, midwife, pregnancy and delivery companion, doula, or any other person you want to be with you in the delivery room, subject to the hospital's policy on the number of people allowed in the delivery room.
- The support person of a birthing mother is not allowed to provide any treatment or interfere with the work of the midwives or medical staff. They are not allowed to make professional decisions. This also applies to doulas or midwives accompanying you personally. In this context, there are actions considered natural (such as nipple massage), but occasionally they require fetal monitoring. In this case, you should notify the midwife responsible for your care and consult with her.
The Ministry of Health's policy on labor support can be found here
The difference between a doula and a personal midwife
Support during delivery is covered by the pregnancy and childbirth basket
The cost of paid accompaniment services can range from 2,000 NIS to significantly higher. It is important to note that HMOs offer a pregnancy and childbirth package that includes expenses related to pregnancy and childbirth, including examinations, devices, and services officially recognized by the HMO. The package also includes partial reimbursement for midwifery or doula services to accompany the childbirth. The devices and services provided vary from HMO to HMO, as do the terms for reimbursement. It is recommended to inquire beforehand about the components included in the pregnancy and childbirth package offered by your HMO.