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Tattoos and Piercings

What are tattoos and piercings?

  • Tattoo

  • Piercing

When deciding to get a tattoo, it’s important to consider the permanent nature of the decision, since a tattoo does not change and, over time, some people may feel regret. In addition, the appearance of a tattoo can change over the years, along with natural changes in the skin that occur as part of aging and development. In contrast, with a piercing, it can of course be removed if desired.

It’s important to explain to the teen that every choice can have future implications—from job opportunities to social relationships. Although tattoos and piercings are very common today, they may still encounter different opinions in adulthood, so it’s worth carefully considering the placement: whether it is an area usually covered by clothing or one that is visible. Another important factor to think about in the case of a tattoo is the size of the design. For piercings, the location of the jewelry should be carefully considered, as it may affect daily functioning—for example, a tongue piercing can interfere with speaking or eating.

It’s important to have an open conversation with the teen and try to understand the background, reasons, and motivation behind wanting a tattoo or piercing. Is it mainly due to peer pressure, or is it a form of personal expression? If the answer is not clear, it may be better to wait a little and reconsider. You can say, for example, “Let’s wait another year and talk about it again,” or try a temporary tattoo or non-piercing jewelry. These options can help give a sense of what the change might feel like and whether it is truly the right fit.

Every family has its own code of conduct, values, and boundaries. As parents, it is important to consider whether certain types of tattoos or piercings align with your family’s approach. The discussion should be open—not imposed—but a conversation in which the teen’s perspective is heard and respected, even if you ultimately decide it does not fit your family’s values.

Important to know

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